Well, I’ve been in a long – distance relationship between a Cancer woman and a Pisces man, and it’s been quite a ride. Let me tell you all about it.
At first, we got together easily. We met at a friend’s party. I was that Cancer woman, kind of shy and emotional, and he, the Pisces man, was so gentle and dreamy. We just clicked right away. We exchanged numbers and started chatting every day. Texting was our main way to stay connected in the beginning. We’d share our little joys and sorrows, like I’d tell him about the cute cat I saw on the street, and he’d share his new painting idea.
But then, when he had to move to another city for a job, things got tough. The distance started to show its effects. Communication became a big challenge. Sometimes, I’d be in a bad mood after a long day at work, and I’d text him, but he might be busy with his new project and not reply right away. That made me feel ignored. I’d start over – thinking, like if he still cared about me or not. And he, being a Pisces, would get all moody and withdrawn when he felt the pressure from his work and our long – distance situation.
Trust was another issue. There were times when I’d see pictures of him with other girls on his social media. Even though I knew they were just colleagues or friends, I couldn’t help but feel a little jealous. And he, on the other hand, would worry if I was getting too close to other guys around me. We had some big fights about trust. One time, we didn’t talk for a whole week because of a silly misunderstanding about a guy who helped me carry groceries.
Planning to meet was also a headache. Our schedules were always misaligned. He had to work overtime often, and I had my own set of deadlines at work. We’d try to book tickets in advance, but then something would come up, and we’d have to cancel the trip. It was so disappointing. Once, we had planned a romantic weekend together for months, but he had an emergency at work, and we had to postpone it. I was so mad at that time.
As time went on, we realized we needed to work on our relationship. We started having regular video calls. We’d set a specific time every week, like Friday nights, to have a long video chat. During these calls, we’d talk about our feelings openly, and it really helped us understand each other better. We also made a rule that we’d always trust each other unless there was real evidence of something wrong. And for meeting, we started being more flexible. Instead of long – planned trips, we’d take short weekend getaways whenever we had a chance.
Now, our long – distance relationship is still going on. It’s not perfect, but we’ve learned to deal with the challenges. We’ve grown closer in a way because we’ve overcome so many difficulties together. It’s like a battle we’re fighting side by side, and I believe we’ll make it through in the end.
