You know, there are just some days when you wake up and you feel it in your bones, that buzz in the air, that little whisper that something’s shifting. For me, lately, it’s been this gnawing feeling about my love life. I’ve been on my own for a good while now, and while I’ve truly enjoyed that journey, I started getting this really strong sense that the universe was getting ready to drop someone special right into my path. It wasn’t a desperate feeling, more like a gentle, persistent nudge. And honestly, after some of the twists and turns my life has taken, I figured, why not just go ahead and ask the universe directly? Get a little peek behind the curtain, you know?
So, I decided to pull out my trusty oracle deck. I’ve had these cards for years now, and they always feel like old friends when I pick them up. I like to make a little ritual out of it, nothing super fancy, just a way to set the mood and clear my head. First, I went and lit a couple of my favorite beeswax candles; they always make the room feel so cozy and grounded. Then, I grabbed my favorite smooth river stone, the one that feels so good in my palm, and placed it right in the middle of my little setup. I put on some soft, quiet music – no lyrics, just instrumental stuff to help me really focus. I made myself a cup of herbal tea, just chamomile, to settle my nerves and help me get into that calm, receptive space. It’s all about creating that bubble where you can really listen.
Once everything felt just right, I picked up the deck. I held it for a moment, just breathing, feeling the weight of the cards in my hands. Then, I started shuffling. I didn’t rush it; I just kept going until it felt natural, like the cards were really mixing up and getting ready to speak. While I shuffled, I closed my eyes and whispered my question aloud, right there into the quiet room: “Is my soulmate coming soon? What do I need to know about their arrival?” I really tried to pour all my genuine curiosity and hopeful energy into that question, not just a simple thought, but a real, heartfelt query. I wanted an honest vibe from the cards, not just what I wanted to hear.
I shuffled for a good five minutes, maybe more. Then, a few cards just kind of wiggled out of the deck, wanting to be noticed. I took those as my spread. I laid them out, one by one, face down, making sure not to peek. I usually like to do a three-card spread for these kinds of questions – one for where I am now, one for what’s unfolding, and one for the outcome or what I need to integrate. It’s simple, but it always seems to hit the mark.
Taking a deep breath, I slowly turned over the first card. It was “The Waiting Game.” Well, isn’t that just typical? I laughed a little. It showed a figure sitting patiently by a window, looking out. My immediate gut feeling was, “Yep, that’s me alright!” It wasn’t about being stagnant, though. For me, it felt like it was acknowledging that I’d done a lot of inner work, that I was ready, but there was still a divine timing at play. It wasn’t saying “never,” it was saying “be patient, but also be present right where you are.” It definitely validated a lot of what I’ve been feeling, that sense of anticipation without desperation.
Next up, I flipped the second card. This one was “New Beginnings.” Oh, now that got my heart fluttering a bit! This card usually shows a fresh sprout pushing through the soil, or a sunrise. For me, seeing that after “The Waiting Game” felt really significant. It was like the universe was winking at me, saying, “See? I told you something was coming!” It didn’t give me a date or a time, but it gave me that feeling of movement, of things starting to shift from a dormant state into active growth. I started thinking about little changes I’ve been making in my life, pushing myself out of my comfort zone, and this card really resonated with that idea that those efforts were preparing the ground for something new.
And then, the last card, the big reveal for the outcome or integration. I turned it over, and it was “The Heart’s Desire.” This card is beautiful, usually showing two hands gently holding a glowing heart. Honestly, I got a little teary-eyed when I saw it. It’s all about finding genuine connection, deep love, and a partnership that truly fulfills you at your core. It wasn’t just about a soulmate, but the soulmate, the one who truly aligns with your deepest wishes and values. It felt like such a warm, comforting affirmation. It didn’t promise an immediate arrival next week, but it very strongly hinted at the quality of the connection when it does arrive, whenever that might be. It confirmed that the kind of love I’ve been dreaming of, the one I’ve been doing all that inner work for, is indeed on its way.
After putting the cards away, extinguishing the candles, and sipping the last of my tea, I felt a lightness I hadn’t felt before. It wasn’t just about getting an “answer,” but about the whole process of connecting with that inner knowing. It gave me a deep sense of peace, a quiet confidence. I didn’t suddenly feel the need to rush out and start looking everywhere. Instead, I just felt affirmed in continuing to live my life authentically, enjoying each day, knowing that the stage is being set. It really drove home the point that sometimes, the best way to invite love in is to simply be open, patient, and truly present in your own journey.
