Well, I was in a situation where I wanted to make the 3 of Wands reconciliation work. First off, I started by really sitting down and thinking about what went wrong in the relationship that needed reconciling. I mean, you can’t fix something if you don’t know what broke it, right?
I then reached out to the other person. I didn’t just text or email, I called them up. I said, “Hey, I think we need to talk about what’s been going on between us.” It was nerve – wracking, but I knew it had to be done.
During our conversation, I made sure to listen more than I talked. I let them pour out their feelings, their frustrations, and their concerns. And I didn’t interrupt. I just nodded and made little “uh – huh” sounds to show I was listening. You know, it’s amazing how much you can learn when you just shut up and listen.
After they were done, I started sharing my side. But I didn’t blame them. I said things like, “I think I could have handled this better” or “I realize I made a mistake here.” I took responsibility for my part in the mess.
Once we’d both had our say, we started talking about solutions. We made a list of things we could do differently in the future. For example, we agreed to communicate more often and be more open with each other.
To make sure we stuck to our promises, we set up some check – ins. Like, every couple of weeks, we’d have a little chat to see how we were doing. It was like a mini – progress report on our reconciliation.
Over time, things started to get better. We were having fewer arguments and more good times. And you know what? It wasn’t as hard as I thought it would be. It just took a little effort, a lot of listening, and a willingness to admit when you’re wrong.
So, if you’re trying to make the 3 of Wands reconciliation work, just give it a shot. Start with a conversation, listen up, own your mistakes, and work together on solutions. You might be surprised at how well it turns out!
