Well, I’ve been dealing with a Pisces man with some negative traits, and here’s my whole experience.
First off, I noticed this Pisces guy was super moody. One minute he was all happy and chatty, and the next, he was sulking in a corner. So, I started by trying to understand his mood swings. I’d observe him closely when he was in a good mood, like when we were watching a funny movie together. I’d ask him what made him feel so good, trying to find out his happy triggers.
Another negative trait was his tendency to be overly sensitive. Once, I made a little joke about his messy desk, and he got really upset. After that, I learned to choose my words carefully. Instead of making direct jokes, I’d use a more gentle way to point out things. For example, I’d say something like, “Hey, maybe it’d be easier to find stuff if we tidy up this desk a bit.”
He was also kind of a day – dreamer and lacked focus. When we were supposed to plan a weekend trip, he’d start talking about some far – off fantasy island. To deal with this, I’d bring him back to reality gently. I’d say, “That sounds awesome, but let’s first decide where we can actually go this weekend.” Then, I’d show him some local travel brochures to get him focused on practical options.
One time, he got really indecisive when we were choosing a restaurant. There were so many options, and he just couldn’t make up his mind. I took charge then. I said, “Let’s just pick this one for now. If we don’t like it, we can always try somewhere else next time.” And it worked!
After a while of using these methods, I saw some real improvements. His mood swings became less extreme, he was less sensitive to my comments, and he was more focused on real – life things. It wasn’t an overnight change, but with patience and these simple strategies, I managed to deal with those negative traits of the Pisces man.
