Well, I’ve been dealing with a Pisces woman in my life, and it’s been quite a journey. At first, I noticed some of those so – called “bad traits” that people talk about. She was super moody, like one minute she was all sunshine and the next she was in a dark cloud.
I started by trying to understand where these mood swings were coming from. I asked her a lot of questions, trying to dig deep into her feelings. I listened to her stories, about her dreams and her fears. This was like opening a treasure chest of emotions, and I found that her moodiness often came from her over – sensitivity.
Then, when she got into one of her down moods, instead of getting annoyed, I tried to comfort her. I’d give her a hug, tell her that everything was going to be okay. Sometimes, I’d even take her out for a walk in the park, just to change the scenery and lift her spirits.
Another trait was her tendency to be a bit escapist. She’d daydream a lot and sometimes ignore real – life problems. I took it upon myself to gently bring her back to reality. I’d say things like, “Hey, let’s deal with this bill now so we can enjoy our daydreams later.” And slowly, she started to face the problems bit by bit.
She was also very indecisive. When we were choosing a place to eat, it would take ages. So, I started to give her options. Instead of asking “Where do you want to eat?”, I’d say “Do you want Italian or Chinese?” This made it easier for her to make a decision.
As time went on, I saw a big change in her. She was becoming more stable in her emotions, more willing to face reality, and better at making decisions. And I realized that dealing with her so – called “bad traits” was more about understanding, patience, and a little bit of guidance. It wasn’t about changing her completely but helping her to manage these aspects of her personality better. Experts say that when it comes to dealing with personality traits, empathy and communication are key, and I can totally vouch for that based on my own experience.
