Well, I’ve been dealing with a male Pisces guy for a while, and boy, it was quite a ride. At first, I had no idea how to handle his so – called “bad traits”.
I started by just observing him. He was always so moody, like one minute he was all happy and the next he was sulking in a corner. I remember one time we were at a party. He was having a great time, dancing and chatting with everyone. But then, out of the blue, he just went quiet and sat by himself. I was like, “What the heck just happened?”
I decided to have a heart – to – heart with him. I sat him down and said, “Look, I know you’re a Pisces and all, but this mood – swinging thing is driving me nuts.” He just kind of shrugged and said he couldn’t help it. So, I thought, okay, I need to find a way to deal with this.
I started to pay more attention to his triggers. Whenever he was around too many people for too long, he’d get overwhelmed. So, I made sure to give him some alone time after big events. For example, after a family gathering, I’d tell him, “Hey, go take a nap or read a book for a bit.”
Another thing was his tendency to be overly sensitive. One time, I made a little joke about his favorite movie, and he got really upset. I quickly realized I had to be more careful with my words around him. I started to think before I spoke, especially when it came to his interests.
I also found that being patient was key. He’d often get lost in his own thoughts and take forever to make a decision. Like when we were choosing a restaurant, he’d be looking at the menu for ages, weighing all the options. Instead of getting impatient, I’d just sit there and wait, sometimes even offering a little nudge when he seemed really stuck.
As time went on, I noticed a big change in our relationship. He was opening up more, and his mood swings were becoming less frequent. I guess all those efforts paid off. Now, when I look back at the whole process, I realize that dealing with his “bad traits” was actually a way for us to understand each other better and build a stronger bond.
So, if you’re dealing with a male Pisces with some not – so – great traits, don’t give up. Just observe, communicate, and be patient. You might be surprised at how things can turn around.
