At first, I was dating this Pisces guy. I knew Pisces had some so – called “bad traits” from what I’d heard, but I thought it wouldn’t be a big deal.
He was super moody. One day, he was all lovey – dovey, holding my hand and telling me sweet things. The next day, he’d be all quiet and distant. I was like, “What the hell just happened?” I tried to talk to him about it, asking him what was wrong. He’d just say, “It’s nothing,” but his face clearly showed he was upset about something.
Another thing was his daydreaming. We’d be out on a date, having dinner at a nice restaurant, and I’d catch him just staring off into space. I’d wave my hand in front of his face and he’d snap back to reality, looking all confused. I’d ask him what he was thinking about, and he’d say some crazy stuff like he was imagining us living on a deserted island.
He was also really sensitive. Once, I made a little joke about his favorite band, and he got all pouty. He said I didn’t respect his taste in music. I had to spend the next hour apologizing and telling him how cool his band was.
But I didn’t want to just give up on the relationship. So, I started trying to understand him better. I read some stuff about Pisces online (not like those fancy – schmancy articles, just the easy – to – read ones). I learned that their mood swings are because they feel things really deeply. And their daydreaming is just their way of escaping from the real world sometimes.
I started being more patient with his mood swings. Instead of getting mad when he was distant, I’d just give him some space and let him come to me when he was ready. When he was daydreaming, I’d join in and ask him more about his crazy ideas. And when he was being sensitive, I’d be extra careful with my words.
After a while, things got a lot better. Our relationship became more stable. I realized that accepting his so – called “bad traits” actually made our relationship stronger. We got closer, and I learned to love him for who he was, mood swings and all. Now, I can say I’ve successfully learned how to accept a Pisces’ personality bad traits in a relationship.
