Well, I’ve always been curious about whether a Pisces man with so – called “bad traits” can change. So I decided to conduct my own little experiment.
First off, I found a Pisces guy. He was kind of moody, like a weather vane, changing his feelings every now and then. Sometimes he was super enthusiastic, and the next moment, he’d be as cold as ice. I started by just chatting with him casually, trying to get to know his thoughts and feelings. I asked him about his day, his hobbies, and what made him tick.
Then, I noticed that he was really into art. He painted in his free time. I thought, hey, this could be a good way to connect with him. So I joined him in some art activities. We went to art galleries together. There, I saw his eyes light up when he looked at beautiful paintings. I could tell that art was his happy place.
As we spent more time together, I started to point out some of his “bad traits” in a gentle way. For example, when he was being too dreamy and not facing reality, I’d tell him a little story about how being practical could also be great. I didn’t want to push him too hard, so I just dropped these little hints here and there.
One day, he was having a really down day. He was all mopey and didn’t want to do anything. I sat with him, listened to him pour out his heart. He said he felt like he was lost in his own world. I told him that it’s okay to have a break, but we also need to take steps to move forward. I suggested we make a small plan for the next few days, something simple like going for a walk every morning.
Slowly, I saw some changes in him. He started to be more aware of his mood swings. He’d tell me when he was feeling down and would try to snap out of it. He also became more practical in some ways. He started to save a little money instead of just spending it on art supplies on a whim.
After a few months of this, I can say that he has changed quite a bit. Of course, he still has some of those Pisces – like traits, but they are more under control. I think the key is to find their passion, connect with them on that level, and then gently guide them to make changes. According to some relationship experts, understanding a person’s core interests and using them as a bridge to communication can really help in changing behavior. And in my experience, it’s totally true!
So, to answer the question, yes, a Pisces man with “bad traits” can change. It takes time, patience, and a whole lot of love, but it’s definitely possible.
