Well, I’ve been in a relationship with a Pisces male for a while, and boy, it’s been quite a ride! Let me tell you how I dealt with those so – called “hard – to – handle” traits.
At first, I noticed that he was super emotional. One day, he was all sunshine and rainbows, and the next, he was as gloomy as a rainy day. I remember we were at a park, having a picnic. Everything was going great, and then out of the blue, he got all quiet and sad. I was like, “What the heck just happened?”
So, the first way I coped was by being a good listener. I sat down with him, looked him in the eye, and said, “Hey, tell me what’s going on in that head of yours.” He started pouring his heart out about some childhood memories that were bothering him. I just sat there, nodded, and let him talk. It was like a dam had broken, and all his feelings came rushing out. After that, he seemed a lot better, and our relationship got a bit closer.
Another thing I found challenging was his indecisiveness. We’d be trying to decide where to go for dinner, and he’d be like, “I don’t know, maybe Italian, or Chinese, or maybe we should just stay home and order pizza.” It drove me nuts! But then I came up with a solution. I started giving him options in a more limited way. Instead of asking, “Where do you want to eat?” I’d say, “Do you want pizza or sushi?” It made it easier for him to make a choice, and we stopped spending hours arguing about dinner.
The third trait that was a bit of a pain was his tendency to daydream. Sometimes, I’d be talking to him, and he’d just zone out, staring off into space. I’d wave my hand in front of his face and say, “Hello? Are you even listening to me?” To deal with this, I started getting his attention in a more fun way. Once, when I saw him daydreaming, I started tickling him. He snapped out of it, and we both ended up laughing. After that, I made sure to engage him more actively in conversations, like asking him to share his daydreams with me.
Overall, dealing with a Pisces male in a relationship isn’t always easy, but it’s definitely worth it. By being a good listener, helping with decision – making, and finding fun ways to keep him engaged, I’ve managed to build a pretty solid relationship with my Pisces guy. It’s been a wild journey, but I wouldn’t trade it for anything!
